I think the others will likely agree, that I have always been the most high-maintenance of the group. I tend to want everything to go perfectly, and everything to be just exactly the way I think it “should” be. The only great vacation is the one where everything goes according to plan, right? Well…not exactly. In every vacation some rain must fall, and it’s in those things that some of our best memories have been created.
Any time you have four families driving hundreds of miles to a vacation destination, a mechanical vehicle failure is a possibility. Do it often enough, and it’s a certainty. We encountered this certainty on our most recent trip. And “replacing a U-joint” was definitely not on our vacation to-do list. But things happen, and cars that are not in working order need to be restored to that in order to proceed with the aforementioned vacation.
A broken car is certainly a curveball. But is it a vacation-wrecker? Sure, it could be. The hassle of all those phone calls and time spent waiting….ugh! It’s enough to raise stress levels just thinking about it. But the answer to whether it will wreck your vacation or not lies in how your group handles it.
Our group is fortunate to have some mechanically-inclined folks in it. And our rental house had a garage that we were able to use. And so…voila! Instant auto repair shop. We also have some teenagers and future drivers in our group, so instant auto shop became instant auto classroom.
A good chunk of an afternoon was spent on what might be considered a bad thing, and we could certainly have allowed it to ruin our vacation, or part of it. But instead it became a fun activity for the dads in the group and varying numbers of kids (the little ones weren’t in it for the long haul :). Two teenage girls crawled under the car and helped out with the repair. A valuable life lesson for two girls who will themselves be car owners someday, and something they still talk about. It raised their confidence in their ability to fix things, and gave them a chance to further develop their relationship with some great dads in their lives who didn’t happen to be their own. The moms got some downtime with a glass of wine and some great conversation. In all, a pretty great afternoon.
Every vacation will have a curveball or two. Perhaps your own car will break down, or that of someone else in your group. Or it may be something else…a mouse in your rental house or an arrival prior to the opening of most tourist attractions at your destination. Whatever it is, I encourage you to be careful of how you think about it. If you allow it to wreck your trip, I assure you it will. But if you employ some humor and creativity, it might just become one of your best memories.
What vacation curveballs have you dealt with? Were you able to make some fun memories? I’d love to hear about them in the comments below.